“For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;”
Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4 (RSV)
Those of us in a particular age group will remember these words from the hit song by the Byrds in 1965. The words were derived from eight verses in this chapter of Ecclesiastes. King Solomon wrote the lyrics and Pete Seeger was the first to turn it into a song in 1959. The Byrds later adapted it and it became the popular hit song, called “Turn, Turn, Turn.”
People read the seasons, signs and cycles of nature in order to adjust and plan accordingly. Professional golfers know how to read the greens of each golf course. Fighter pilots use OODA, a code which stands for Observe, Orient, Decide and Act. It helps them make quick, accurate decisions while flying at high speeds.
Farmers read the phases of the moon, since some are better for planting, when the gravitational pull is best for plant growth and root development. Physicians observe a patients’ symptoms to decide which diagnostic tests to order and how to best treat them.
God created a beautiful world with cycles and systems of nature, which mankind has learned to navigate according to their own field of interest. He has made everything beautiful in its time, and He created us to hunger for the pleasures that last forever, which only He can satisfy.
Just as there are cycles and seasons in the universe, there are also cycles and seasons in our personal journey of life and faith. We all experience seasons of joy and laughter, as well as seasons of mourning and weeping. If we can read the seasons in our lives, as we do in nature, we will have a better sense of divine providence, and the security of trusting that God works everything out for our eternal good.
True joy has little to do with the absence of problems, but is the result of a grateful heart. Trusting that God is in control, gives us a sense of gratitude and makes it easier to transition into the next season. Nothing stays the same, change is always difficult, but the biggest challenge is when we are in a season of sorrow, loss or discomfort.
Peter tells us not to be surprised by the fiery ordeal that we may be facing, because we will share in Christ’s suffering in some way, but we will also find inexpressible joy at His return and revelation of His glory. (1 Peter 4:12-14)
We were meant to seek the lessons God has for us through all the seasons of our lives.
My two older brothers were only eighteen months apart and were very close growing up. As the only girl and the youngest, I felt like an only child at times. Now, when I reflect on their relationship, I can appreciate it much more after raising twin boys, who grew up with the same kind of closeness.
My brothers shared a bedroom as well as the same group of friends. They laughed together, played sports together, shared their first car, attended the same college and had the same best friend, who stood up at both of their weddings. They both had a first born baby daughter, born within two months of each other.
Three years after his daughter was born, my oldest brother Ted, died suddenly at the age of 35, in his F-16 fighter jet. He was a skilled Air Force instructor pilot, but crashed during a routine training mission, caused by an electrical wire chafing problem, common in F-16’s at the time.
(A movie called Afterburn, released in 1992 tells his story)
The loss of my oldest brother was a sad season in my family’s lives. Although my brother John kept a stoic exterior, I have come to understand that he suffered the loss in a different way than the rest of our family. He not only lost a brother, he lost his best friend, the one person who knew him best and was supposed to be his lifelong friend. Today, he has a family of his own and a close relationship with his own son and grandsons, which has been a gift of comfort and blessing for him.
In thinking about faith, families, siblings and the seasons of our lives, I have come to realize that Jesus is an older brother to all of us, who stays with us throughout every season of our life. We can have peace, knowing that His arms are always around us, in whatever season we are in.
Life is filled with seasons of joy and sorrow, but if we learn to read the change of seasons, we can trust that God is always with us, using every season to transform and strengthen us, while working all things for our good.
Lord, help us to read each season and cycle of our lives, and give us the grace and peace to know you are with us in every season. Amen










