“Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you so long, and yet you do not know me, Philip? He who has seen me has seen the Father; how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father in me?”
John 14:9-10 (RSV)
These are the words of Jesus when Philip asked Him to show them the Father. Jesus spoke so much about His Father in Heaven that the disciples finally said, “Show Him to us!”
At the transfiguration, a voice spoke audibly from the sky and said, “This is my beloved Son, listen to Him!”, so by listening to Jesus, we can learn all we need to know about His Father. Every thing He did and everything He taught reflect His Father. If anyone thinks that God is nothing like Jesus, they haven’t been listening to Jesus, because He told us that He and His Father are one. (John 10:30)
Jesus constantly reached out to the most marginalized and untouchables of society, such as lepers, gentiles and prostitutes. Many of His parables were focused on the relationship of fathers and sons. Everything He did in His ministry revealed His own paternal nature. When He spoke to the woman who was healed of bleeding, He called her “Daughter”, then said, “your faith has healed you.” (Matthew 9:22)
Jesus is also the good shepherd who will leave his flock to search for the one who is lost. Just like a father of many children, He loves them all but would leave to search for one who is lost. These are the images that God wants us to see about Him.
When Jesus said “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest,” it’s an open invitation to all people, but especially to the burdened, broken, and forgotten ones. He goes on to say, “Take my yoke upon you, for I am gentle and lowly in heart….” Since Jesus describes Himself as gentle, then so is His Father.
I never had this understanding of God while growing up. I imagined a stern God, with standards so high that I would never measure up. I pictured Him always frowning at me, for not being good enough.
That misconception was the enemy’s deception which kept me from discovering the most powerful truth, that God is my good and true Heavenly Father. I know now that God doesn’t love us because we are good, He loves us because He is good.
I am certain that Jesus was trying to speak to me at different times in my youth, probably saying something like, “If you only knew that I love you and want to give you my peace.”(Luke 19:42)
At first I wasn’t listening, but God never gives up on us, and the day came when I finally ran toward Him instead away from Him.
God is a good Father, who longs for every person to return and be reconciled to Him. The word reconcile is defined as restoring a relationship, but with God, it involves so much more than that. It’s moving us from doubt, separation and brokenness to healing love, forgiveness and wholeness.
It’s the lovingkindness of God, not the fear of wrath, that leads people to repentance and a long lasting relationship with Him.
(Romans 2:4)
When Jesus stood looking at the city of Jerusalem, He lamented over the people who rejected Him, saying that He longed to gather them as a mother hen gathers her chicks, but they would not come.
Those are very parental words, desiring to gather and reconcile one’s own children. Jesus gives us a glimpse of God’s true nature, as the prototype of a good Father.
To know Jesus is to know God, who is our good and perfect Father, longing to gather His children who are separated, hurt and broken. The Father’s sole desire is manifested through Jesus, to love, heal, and forgive, making us truly whole.
Lord, help us to see you as our good and loving Father, who longs to gather and reconcile all people to Yourself. Amen










