“In every way I have shown you that by hard work of that sort we must help the weak, and keep in mind the words of the Lord Jesus who himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.”
Acts 20:35 (NAB)
Helping the weak and keeping the words of Jesus in our minds was the advice of Luke, who wrote the book of Acts. Luke said that Jesus taught that it’s more blessed to give than to receive, but giving can involve things much greater than money.
Our response to someone in the present moment might require the giving of our attention or our time, even when it’s inconvenient, which can be a greater gift than giving money. It’s easy to miss an opportunity that comes in the present moment, while we are driven to focus on where we need to go, what we have to do and who we need to see. In that driven state of mind, we might easily miss someone sent to us.
The Spirit of God speaks to us through a series of moments throughout each day, sometimes by prompting us to notice someone who is otherwise, unnoticeable. God notices all people, and He desires to show mercy to each one, but He likes using people like us to do it.
A busy mother recently shared how she was on an errand in a grocery store with her young children beside her. Being pressed for time and checking her watch, an elderly stranger began to strike up a conversation with her. Her first thought was that she had no time for conversation, but then she took a moment to pause and give attention to her. She gave her time to listen to a kind lady who wanted to talk, and afterward, they were both blessed.
How often during a busy day, filled with errands and agendas, might we miss the person sent to us in a present moment? There will always be someone who we were meant to give something to, whether it’s our time, attention, a kind word or a gift. It’s what Jesus meant about reaping more when we give than when we receive.
Giving our time and attention to a person who is often overlooked could be the most generous gift they have ever received. Noticing those who usually go unnoticed, can bless them in a rich and lasting way. It’s all part of the lessons I’m learning through my visits at the Nursing home.
One day last week while sitting at a table with the residents, one resident had his aunt visiting him. She bought him a can of soda from the vending machine, and then gave money to his friend who sat next to him, so that she could buy a can of soda too. A third person sitting with us already had their own beverage to drink, and I had brought a beverage from home.
So, four out of five people sitting at the table now had beverages to drink, except a resident named Mary Beth, who was sitting next to me. As we were talking, she never asked for a beverage for herself.
I couldn’t help but notice that she was left out, so I pulled $2 from my wallet and gave it to her, to buy herself a beverage. She was overwhelmed with gratitude over that $2, so much so, that she couldn’t stop thanking me for buying her a can of soda pop. It was as if I gave her a gift of great value.
Although her gratitude seemed disproportionate to a small gift, it occurred to me that it wasn’t the money or the beverage that made Mary Beth so grateful. Knowing that she never receives any visits from family or friends, I think buying her a drink made her feel special in that present moment.
That whole experience made me more aware of who is in my present moment, that might benefit from anything I can give, even if it’s only a smile, a kind word or a simple gift of a canned beverage. Like the stranger in the grocery store or any person who feels unnoticed, God sends them along our way, into the moments of our day, so that we can give them our time and attention in the spirit of God’s love.
Lord, remind us that it’s the little acts of kindness during the brief present moments of our day, that bloom into the biggest blessings for all. Amen











