(A MEMORIAL)
“And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”
Romans 8:28 ( NASB)
In honor of all Veterans, I’m sharing my oldest brother’s story. Ted was a recent college graduate, working towards his Master’s degree in Physics, when he was drafted during the Viet Nam war in 1971. He chose to join the Air Force instead of other branches of the military, to increase his chances of survival. It turned out he loved flying and was so good at it, he had a twelve year career in the Air Force, as an instructor pilot.
Ted was stationed in South Korea in 1982. At the time, I was a busy stay at home mother of two year old twin boys, when I received a phone call one day which made my world stand still. I was informed that Ted’s plane went missing while on a routine instructor flight. In his last radio transmission he said, “I’ve got a problem,” as his F-16 completely disappeared from radar.
During the search mission, we were hoping that he ejected from the plane and would be found alive. Some days later, the family was notified that his crash site was found on a mountain. Ted was only thirty five when he died, leaving behind his wife and three year old daughter.
We learned a few years later that there was an electrical wire chafing problem, common to that particular F-16 model, which all the airplane mechanics were aware of. As our family coped with his loss, his wife did whatever she could, to bring publicity to the faulty electrical system in the F-16 fighter jets at the time.
She eventually won the legal battle, after an investigation led to the discovery of mechanics’ training videos, which proved there was a wire chafing problem in F-16s.
The truth was made public and the accident report was officially changed from pilot error to electrical wire chafing. She won her lawsuit against the government contractor, General Dynamics, who produced the electrical wiring for F-16 jets.
Since no one ever successfully sued a government contractor before that, my sister in law was invited to tell her story on the Diane Sawyer show. Then Disney Productions contacted her, and a movie was made, based on the legal battle that followed his crash. It was released in 1992 for HBO, called “Afterburn”. Laura Dern won a golden globe award, in playing my sister in law.
I always felt a sense of urgency to pray for Ted during his years in the Air Force, long before the accident happened. I’ll never know why things ended as they did, but I do know that no one just happens to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Every human life means more to God than being a mere victim of random tragic accidents.
Scripture tells us that the days of our life are written in God’s book at the moment of our conception;
“Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book, before one of them came to be.”
(Psalm 139:16)
God sees the eternal picture, while we only see the present one.
I choose to believe that God is good, that He loves us, and works all things together for our “eternal” good. So, today, I honor and pray for all the men and women who were ever permanently injured or lost their lives in military service to this country. May God grant rest to their souls.
Lord, help us to trust and believe in you, even through the painful and tragic events in our lives. By faith, we believe that you work all things together for our eternal good. Amen
In memory of Capt. Ted Harduvel
(Oct. 28, 1947-Nov. 15, 1982)










