“It is the living who give thanks to You, as I do today;
A father tells his sons about Your faithfulness.”
Isaiah 38:19 (NASB)
Last weekend I attended a celebration of life for my brother in law, who passed away from lung cancer, at 86. Peter was the older brother of my late husband, Stephen.
It was interesting to hear the eulogies that his four children gave. They all shared how their dad always told them he loved them. He was dedicated to his faith, where he played the piano for the services at his Evangelical Lutheran church, for many years.
Music was Peter’s entire life hobby, especially after he retired from working as a forensic engineer. For years he utilized his skill of engineering to investigate system failures of machines, explosions, and electrical failures that resulted in an injury or death. One of the eulogies mentioned how unique it was for a man so invested in years of engineering, to also be musically gifted to write inspiring worship songs for his church, which Peter did.
His oldest son, also named Peter, lived the farthest away from the family, in San Diego. He inherited his father’s creative talent and also plays the piano. He uses his creative gifts, working as a designer of backdrops for various theatrical productions.
When Peter heard that his dad was diagnosed with lung cancer, he flew in for a visit last year. It was a special reunion between a father and his first born, at which time, Peter told his son that he wanted him to have his keyboard after he was gone. That visit was in October, but no one expected him to pass away eight months later.
After Peter passed away the four children came together, and while cleaning his home, they found his sentimental treasures. His oldest son found his dad’s keyboard and took it with him as his dad once requested. Gabrielle, his daughter, found a collection of song lyrics that her dad wrote, and she read the lyrics of one song at his celebration of life church service. It was a song about the peace that is found while sitting at the feet of Jesus.
Everything Peter wrote, centered on how, whatever the storm, the Lord keeps us in peace, as we stay close to Jesus. He obviously found this peace, during his lung cancer journey.
In his last few years, he continued to care for his wife at home, who has Alzheimer’s, while he was undergoing treatments for lung cancer.
It was a beautiful and creative celebration of life, and we all learned more about Peter than we knew before. He left a rich legacy of love and faith for all who knew him. It concluded with everyone singing Amazing Grace followed by a closing prayer.
Celebrations of life are reminders that we begin our legacy, here and now, while we are alive and well. We carry within us, the lessons of faith and love that someone else first left in our hearts, and it goes on from generation to generation. God, our Heavenly Father left us the greatest legacy of all, through the life example of Jesus, His son.
Lord, help us to always live in love, faith and integrity, providing a lasting legacy that impacts all of our loved ones for years to come. Amen










