“The woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming (He who is called Christ); when that One comes, He will declare all things to us.” Jesus said to her, “I am He, the One speaking to you.”
John 4:25-26. (NASB)
Jesus respected the social, religious and cultural customs of His day, as long as they centered primarily on a love for God and others, but He ignored those customs when He needed to reach out to a particular person.
It was not customary in Jesus’ time for a man to speak to a woman alone, but He crossed that boundary when He had a private conversation with an unnamed woman at the well. He left such a powerful impact on her, that she couldn’t stop telling others that she met a man who told her everything about herself.
We also have social customs today, from words used to greet others, to the phrases we say when departing, like have a good day, or by ‘liking’ a friend’s FB post. They are all forms of cultural etiquette. We routinely greet people saying, “How are you?” although it’s not customary to stay around and find out how they really are. It’s more of a greeting that we say in passing.
If Jesus visited our society today, He might ask someone, “How are you?” but pause to look directly into their eyes and wait for an honest answer. It would be hard to walk away from the warm, loving presence and powerful glance of Jesus.
That’s most likely how He approached the woman at the well that day. It wasn’t as random a meeting as it appeared to be, since Jesus purposely stayed behind while His disciples went into town to buy food. He waited at that particular well, for a particular woman to show up. His divine nature knew all that was weighing down her heart, after many failed relationships, while she was on her sixth one.
Jesus said something very unusual to her, which wasn’t heard in a casual conversation. He said, “I am He”. As we read this story, He seems to be saying it to all of us as well. Whatever we long for, whoever we look to, and however we expect satisfaction in our lives, Jesus seems to be saying to us,
“I am He, I am the one, and only I am the answer to what you need.”
Jesus broke rules but healed many broken hearts. He frustrated the traditionalists but gave hope and peace to the outcasts and the hopeless, because no custom, religious rule or man made laws are greater than His compassion for souls.
Jesus doesn’t need to ask how we are, because He already knows how we are, but He wants us to know who He is. He wants everyone, man or woman, who live with heavy hearts, to know that He is there and ‘He is the one’ who loves us enough to break through social and religious customs and cross all boundaries, just to touch us and say that it’s going to be okay, because He’s got us.
Lord, you are the One, who knows us more than anyone, and today we pray for spiritual, mental and physical healing and wholeness for us and our loved ones. Amen










