“First of all, then, I ask that supplications, prayers, petitions, and thanksgivings be offered for everyone, for kings and for all in authority, that we may lead a quiet and tranquil life in all devotion and dignity.”
1 Timothy 2:1-2 (NAB)
The apostle Paul pleads for all believers to commit themselves to pray for everyone, so that through prayers and thanksgiving, we may all lead a life of tranquility. It sounds like common sense, except that we are often surrounded by so much discord, that it becomes increasingly challenging to live in tranquility.
The discord in the world sometimes carries over into the Nursing Home, making my visits more arduous at times. Though I’ve become friends with some residents for the past two years through my visits, some people have personalities that are easily triggered, which leads to an occasional exchange of unkind words. Before long, one person gets angry at another person and lashes out verbally, in front of all the others sitting at the table in the Day room. It becomes especially uncomfortable for those newer residents who are witnessing the tension and strife.
I’ve recently become friends with one of the newest residents, who is a gentle spirited, kind man with a history of depression and heart failure. He told me that he suffers from chronic angina. I wished I could have shielded him from the dissension taking place at the table one day. A resident took offense over something that was said, reacting with words of hostility. In wondering what I could do to bring tranquility to the situation, I felt an urge to pray for my new friend.
I stepped a few feet away from the table with him and said a brief prayer for healing of his heart and angina. It meant a lot to him to be prayed for and it also removed us momentarily from an atmosphere of strife. A short and simple prayer helped to reset our atmosphere with a fresh and peaceful start. Afterwards, the tempers at the table seemed calmer.
I found my new strategy, instead of feeling stressed over rude behaviors when tensions run high, I can always step away and pray in my spirit, or find someone specifically to pray for. It felt like the right thing to do in the moment, and it was. When we step away to pray, the Holy Spirit steps in.
Everyone appreciates being prayed for and there’s no better way to counteract a spirit of division and anger, than to start praying. Jesus brings His peaceful presence into the midst, when two or more people gather in His name through prayer. (Matthew 18:20)
Sometimes the simplest yet least thought of solution to a strife filled atmosphere, is to step away and pray. Tranquility through prayer, overcomes the discord and wins every time. I often forget that the Holy Spirit wants to be invited into each of our problems every day. Before my own buttons get pushed, I need to remind myself to call upon Him in the moment. The Holy Spirit never forces His way in, because He is too much of a gentleman, but things change when we invite Him into the challenges we face each day.
Lord, give us the grace to pray when we encounter dissension that leads to discord, so that you can step in, and bring peace, tranquility and the restoration of all unity. Amen










